I have went through many posts shared in facebook media where men is being treated as absolute monsters.There are many reasons for this considering the brutal behaviour of so many men predators out there. For lust and money, what these guys are doing is shameful for the entire mankind. Yes that is true, some men are considering women as sexual objects ,abuse them ,treating them cruely. But for some peoples madness blaming the entire community is not acceptable. Same way we can see many number of womens doing crimes, involved in faulty activities against men. But people will ignore these things. If we serach through the news articles we can see the various crimes involving both woman and men. But since media and all feminist organizations are intersted in blaming a particular gender because the discussions will happen only related to their interest only.
There are many men who respect and sacrifice for womans and family. Majority of men will be like that only. The guys who works hard for making the ends meet. The guys who go into any extend to make his wife and childrens happy. The guys who sacrifice their all happiness just to make everyone happy.Why no one is seeing that? Iam living in dubai for around 6 years now. I lived in bachelor bed spaces during my early days of life. I have seen many mens sacrificing life for their family. I have seen a guy who didnt take 1 day off for just working and earning for his family. He only wants to make his family live luxury back home, but he is staying in a bedspace shared by 10 people. I have seen him eating only kuboos and small currys just to save amount and send to home for there expenses. Another guy, he doesnt buy any new things to wear during his stay there. But he sends money to his home regulary and asking them to buy new clothes and food. These are only few examples of sacrifices of the mens life. Recently, there were 2 contrasting news in the media. One is a guy pouring acid on a womens face, because she betrayed him. Another news was a girl poured acid on her boy friends face, because he wants to end relationship with her. These are same type of situations and guess what media reported. On girls case, media were saying it was a sweet revenge whereas in boys case they were framing him as a devil. Although in my opinion both deserve life time punishment but here I want to point out the media's mentality, where their mindset of reporting two same situations in two different manners. The reason is they will get TRP ratings if they favour some feminism ideas. If they show same sympathy while reporting the situations involving males, they will be tagged a Male chuvanist . So they likes to play safe. Every community, every gender contains good and bad things. If Categorizing a whole community based on mistakes done by small percentage is not acceptable at all.
The solution for this is , we have to change the mentality injected on us. From childhood itself, we have to teach them value of kindness and human values. Dont educate womens like mens all are bad or educate mens viceversa.If you keep educating your girls like all men are bad, then whenever they meet any people of that particular gender, they wont feel comfortable.This will affect their family life also.They wont respect any men, its including their father, husband,boyfriend.etc. They always feel the other guy is going to make some harm to her. Hence she will feel insecure and resulting will be quarels and disputes. Suppose you educate a men like all womens are bad. so he will consider all womens like that only. He will treat them in low values. Hence he cant lead a good life. The girls has to look into her dad or brother and should think like "See not all men are bad". Sameway men have to look in to his mother or sister and should think like "See not all women are bad". This is the right approach. Think good, change the world!!
There are many men who respect and sacrifice for womans and family. Majority of men will be like that only. The guys who works hard for making the ends meet. The guys who go into any extend to make his wife and childrens happy. The guys who sacrifice their all happiness just to make everyone happy.Why no one is seeing that? Iam living in dubai for around 6 years now. I lived in bachelor bed spaces during my early days of life. I have seen many mens sacrificing life for their family. I have seen a guy who didnt take 1 day off for just working and earning for his family. He only wants to make his family live luxury back home, but he is staying in a bedspace shared by 10 people. I have seen him eating only kuboos and small currys just to save amount and send to home for there expenses. Another guy, he doesnt buy any new things to wear during his stay there. But he sends money to his home regulary and asking them to buy new clothes and food. These are only few examples of sacrifices of the mens life. Recently, there were 2 contrasting news in the media. One is a guy pouring acid on a womens face, because she betrayed him. Another news was a girl poured acid on her boy friends face, because he wants to end relationship with her. These are same type of situations and guess what media reported. On girls case, media were saying it was a sweet revenge whereas in boys case they were framing him as a devil. Although in my opinion both deserve life time punishment but here I want to point out the media's mentality, where their mindset of reporting two same situations in two different manners. The reason is they will get TRP ratings if they favour some feminism ideas. If they show same sympathy while reporting the situations involving males, they will be tagged a Male chuvanist . So they likes to play safe. Every community, every gender contains good and bad things. If Categorizing a whole community based on mistakes done by small percentage is not acceptable at all.
The solution for this is , we have to change the mentality injected on us. From childhood itself, we have to teach them value of kindness and human values. Dont educate womens like mens all are bad or educate mens viceversa.If you keep educating your girls like all men are bad, then whenever they meet any people of that particular gender, they wont feel comfortable.This will affect their family life also.They wont respect any men, its including their father, husband,boyfriend.etc. They always feel the other guy is going to make some harm to her. Hence she will feel insecure and resulting will be quarels and disputes. Suppose you educate a men like all womens are bad. so he will consider all womens like that only. He will treat them in low values. Hence he cant lead a good life. The girls has to look into her dad or brother and should think like "See not all men are bad". Sameway men have to look in to his mother or sister and should think like "See not all women are bad". This is the right approach. Think good, change the world!!
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